I have a dream ... and I have one for my kids. They go congruently and, at the same time, in polar opposite directions. I know what I want to do but what I want to do might be at odds with what I want for my kids. (And no, I'm not fantasizing of running off to join a circus or become a full-time yogi in Bali.) Instead, I'm having a dilemma, and I think it's probably one many other trailing spouses have do ... bear with me. It's about jobs. I have, as I see it, two option