Why is it so hard to hear something nice from other people? Why is it so hard to believe others see value in our energy, our smile, our good deeds? Why is it so much easier to believe criticism than it is to accept a compliment? First, if someone says something nice about you to you, say thank you. Smile. Appreciate their thoughtfulness. AND STOP THERE. Just because someone said something nice to you does not mean that A) they are lying, B) they want something from yo