We are, without a doubt, constantly bombarded with tasks we HAVE to do: the never-ending laundry pile, buying groceries, cooking and baking, cleaning up after both and eating, work tasks, school tasks, parenting tasks, relationship tasks... When was the last time you did something purely because it was what you chose to do at that time? Most weeks, even one of my favorite things to do (swim) has to happen at a particular time even though it isn't when I want to do it because

I have a confession and I want to tell you about my a-ha moment recently. Confession: Sometimes what I tell you that you 'should' do is not actually something you can accomplish. I know, you're thinking I've set you up to fail. No, honestly, I haven't. But I realized that my urgings to you can't always apply all of the time. And I honestly didn't realize that what I was saying was not until recently. Perhaps it is more accurate to say I didn't realize the complexity of w