United we stand, divided we fall. Except sometimes. Sometimes, things are easier when we are on our own. Sometimes, truly, solo is superior. I’m not just saying this to make you feel better. Besides the very catchy Red Solo Cup song, there is another kind of solo and it can indeed be a good thing (and yes, this is me trying to convince myself that being geographically single isn’t quite as awful as I really think it is). A few good things: What you say goes. You’re the par