(Flash from the past) First, let me tell you a story. There was this FS family who moved to a new post overseas. They had been to other posts; this was not their first go at this. They arrived, dragged themselves to the grocery store, wandered around, spending an inordinate amount on a pitiful number of items. They pushed through the jet lag to get to a 'normal' bedtime , and then, like zombies, dropped into a listless sleep. Their arrival was not horrible, but not grea