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Advice from the Cheshire Cat

  • Writer: Susie Csorsz Brown
    Susie Csorsz Brown
  • Oct 29, 2025
  • 1 min read

Updated: Oct 29, 2025

Thoughts about designing (“designing”) an ideal life:

From Alice in Wonderland


“Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?”


“That depends a good deal on where you want to get to,” said the Cat.


“I don’t much care where—” said Alice.


“Then it doesn’t matter which way you go,” said the Cat.


A truth:


If you aren’t clear on where you want to go, any road will take you there.


In an attempt to design an ideal life, ask yourself this: What do you actually want your life to look like?


  • Where do you live? What does the space feel like?​

  • Whom do you live with? Who are you close to?

  • What are you doing on an average Tuesday?

  • What are you working on?

  • What possessions bring you joy?

  • What does your financial life look like?


Big questions worth considering.


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