• Susie Csorsz Brown

Finding friends

We are moving... again. That means AGAIN I will set up home, figure out what to get where and how to get from Point A to Point B and which of those points is really important. I am hopeful to at some point have this. I know that most expat families search for this, every single move.


James Crews

Where I’m from, people still wave

to each other, and if someone doesn’t, you might say of her, She wouldn’t wave at you to save her life—

but you try anyway, give her a smile. This is just one of the many ways we take care of one another, say: I see you, I feel you, I know you are real. I wave

to Rick who picks up litter while walking his black labs, Olive and Basil— hauling donut boxes, cigarette packs and countless beer cans out of the brush

beside the road. And I say hello to Christy, who leaves almond croissants in our mailbox and mason jars of fresh- pressed apple cider on our side porch.

I stop to check in on my mother-in-law— more like a second mother—who buys us toothpaste when it’s on sale, and calls if an unfamiliar car is parked at our house.

We are going to have to return to this way of life, this giving without expectation, this loving without conditions. We need to stand eye to eye again, and keep asking—

no matter how busy—How are you, how’s your wife, how’s your knee?, making this talk we insist on calling small, though kindness is what keeps us alive.

#neighbors #findingfriends

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